{"id":2996,"date":"2017-11-20T19:49:49","date_gmt":"2017-11-20T23:49:49","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.thiscontemplativelife.com\/?p=2996"},"modified":"2017-11-20T19:49:49","modified_gmt":"2017-11-20T23:49:49","slug":"the-train-analogy-that-will-completely-change-how-you-see-your-crying-child","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/thiscontemplativelife.com\/index.php\/2017\/11\/20\/the-train-analogy-that-will-completely-change-how-you-see-your-crying-child\/","title":{"rendered":"The Train Analogy That Will Completely Change How You See Your Crying Child\u00a0"},"content":{"rendered":"<div><em>\u2026a parent must dance the child to his tears, to letting go, and to the sense of rest that comes in the wake of letting go\u2026[a parent must] come alongside the child\u2019s experience of frustration and provide comfort. The agenda should not be to teach a lesson but to move frustration to sadness\u2026Much more important than our words is the child\u2019s sense that we are with her, not against her.\u201d &#8211;\u00a0Gordon Neufeld and Gabor Mate, Hold on to Your Kids<\/em><\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<p>Source: <em><a href=\"https:\/\/pickanytwo.net\/the-train-analogy-that-will-change-how-you-see-your-crying-child\/\">The Train Analogy That Will Completely Change How You See Your Crying Child &#8211; Pick Any Two<\/a><\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u2026a parent must dance the child to his tears, to letting go, and to the sense of rest that comes in the wake of letting&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[8],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/thiscontemplativelife.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2996"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/thiscontemplativelife.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/thiscontemplativelife.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thiscontemplativelife.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thiscontemplativelife.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2996"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/thiscontemplativelife.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2996\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/thiscontemplativelife.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2996"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thiscontemplativelife.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2996"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thiscontemplativelife.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2996"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}